There has never been a time in my life when the unseen felt entirely separate from the ordinary.

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Spirit, intuition, knowing, pattern, energy, whatever language you want to use for it, has always been there. What took me much longer to understand was how to live with that perception consciously. How to discern what was mine and what wasn’t. How to use intuition without abandoning reason. How to stay grounded in the body while listening to something much larger than it.

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That part took work.

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A lot of it.

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For more than 20 years, I have worked at the intersections of intuition, psychology, trauma, spirituality, embodiment, creativity, and holistic wellness. I have taught intuition and meditation, worked privately with clients, counseled, mentored, doula'd people through cancer and other illnesses, facilitated energetic and spiritual work, taught Kundalini yoga, explored consciousness from every angle I could get my hands on, and spent an unreasonable number of hours examining why human beings do what we do.

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My formal education is in psychology, with additional graduate study in dispute resolution, but my real education has never fit neatly inside one discipline.​

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I am interested in the place

where everything meets.​

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The psyche and the body.
The mystical and the practical.
Trauma and choice.
Pattern and possibility.
Science and mystery.
Responsibility and surrender.

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I have never been particularly interested in belief for belief’s sake. I am interested in what is useful. What creates movement. What frees us. What helps a person become more honest, more whole, more alive, and more capable of participating consciously in their own life.

That is the thread running through everything I do.​

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​HOW I GOT HERE

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​My intuitive life became impossible to ignore after the birth of my first son.

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What had always lived quietly in the background suddenly moved into the foreground. Experiences I had once been able to dismiss became too persistent to explain away, and I eventually found a teacher who helped me understand what I was perceiving and, more importantly, how to work with it responsibly.

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That distinction is really where the work lives.

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The mystical part was compelling. But the real transformation came through the work beneath it: responsibility, discernment, honesty, surrender, trust, and the willingness to look directly at the parts of myself I would rather have avoided.

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That changed my life.

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It also changed how I understood healing.

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Healing, as I have come to know it, is rarely about becoming some perfected version of yourself. It is much more often about becoming less divided. Less defended. Less governed by old adaptations and inherited stories. More able to inhabit your own life.

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I fell deeply in love with that process.

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Not because it was easy. It wasn’t.

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Because it was real.

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And because it gave me something I had been searching for in psychology, spirituality, self-development, and therapy for years: a way to bring insight all the way down into lived experience.

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That remains the center of my work now.

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​THE REST OF ME

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​​​​I am also profoundly, stubbornly human.

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I am a mother of two sons, a wife, a longtime homeschooler, a serial entrepreneur, a writer, a creator, a plant propagator, a researcher, a traveler, a teacher, a collector of strange knowledge, and someone who can move with alarming ease from Jungian psychology to soil composition to mythology to business strategy in the same conversation.

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I have built and run businesses in wellness, yoga, retail, organization, education, and creative work. I love making things from nothing. I love finding connections other people miss. I love taking something amorphous and giving it form.

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These days, I live in South Carolina with my family and work both privately and creatively through Blythe Rowan and the larger world of Elowën that I am building around story, meaning, transformation, beauty, nature, and the unseen.

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My work is deeply personal because people are deeply personal.

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I am not interested in becoming an authority over anyone’s life. I am interested in helping people hear themselves more clearly, recognize what is actually true, and develop the capacity to meet their lives with greater awareness, responsibility, intuition, and choice.

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If something in you is asking for more truth, more freedom, or a different way of being, I've got a cozy chair and some tea waiting for you. 

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